I am a professional engineer who is a soft-spoken, patient, go-with-the-flow kind of guy with a dry sense of humor who recently became a widower. I had a wonderful 20 year monogamous relationship. However the down side is that it has resulted in me having lived a pretty sheltered sex life. Now I'm ready to make up for lost time. I would love to experience anal sex (with woman only - guys keep your dicks out of there), to have a threesome, to do role playing (especially slave/master and student /teacher), light bondage including breast/nipple clamps, etc. etc. If anyone wants to teach this "virgin" about the wild and kinky side of sexuality please contact me.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
One of my favorite fantasies is for my partner to stimulate
my cock to the point of orgasm but just as I get to the brink
of coming she stops playing with me. After a few minutes
when I am past the critical stage she starts pleasuring
me all over again and again takes me to the very edge of coming.
This is repeated for up to an hour or more.. While this is
going on I am restrained in some way so that I can not interfere
with the proceedings.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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