I am living my life on purpose, with a solid vision of what I am creating in my career, my play & recreation time. With the women in my life, I am a sensual dominant man, who is also a deep romantic at heart. I am deeply committed to my practice of sacred sexuality and discovering how deep I can go in my own journey. I enjoy meeting others who are interested in the same thing. I love the human condition that we find ourselves experiencing. I simply LOVE people. They fascinate me. I connect quickly and more importantly DEEPLY with those who are brave enough to be open to allowing others to truly SEE them. Life is to short for superficial connections. I want to touch your soul, and feel your heart as you touch mine. In all of that, I love to play and luxuriate daily in this adventure of life that I am having. Among friends and family I am known as "The Fun!" ENFP ... It would be cool if you understand what that means :) "I'm a little weird, and life's a little weird, and sometimes two people find each other and fall into mutual weirdness and call it love" Dr Seuse My true passion gets to be expressed in the evenings & weekends where I am building a coaching practice built around sexuality. I work as an "intimacy guide", assisting men, women & couples to discover and be clear on their desires, kinks, passions etc and how to bring that powerfully & authentically into every aspect of their daily lives. Other than that focus, I love reading and learning more about this this area of life, Tantra, Orgasmic Meditation practice... You get the picture. Just re-reading "the Ethical Slut" Fantastic book. Love to be dancing as often as possible, practicing/learning more about rope, discovering new peral kinks and connecting with friends old and new as often as possible. I think a lot about Sex. What can I say. I'm a man who loves intimacy. Being self sufficient. I would love to build my own rammed earth home and live totally off grid. Success in business and life. Desire. I have many desires and experiences yet to have. Who I am going to be when I meet my next great love, and what we will create in this world together... This might get a bit long but it will be worth the read... The Invitation... It doesn't interest me what you do for a living - I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your hearts longing. It doesn't interest me how old you are - I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive. It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon... I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow; if you have been opened by life's betrayals, or have become closed and shrivelled from fear of further pain. I want to know if you can sit with pain - mine or your own, without moving to hide it, or fade it, or fix it. I want to know if you can be with joy- mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes, without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human. It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself. If you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. If you can be faithless, and therefore trustworthy. I want to know if you can see beauty even if its not pretty everyday. And if you can source your own life from its presence. I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand at the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon "YES!" It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have - I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair weary and bruised to the bone and do what needs to be done to feed the ren. It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here - I want to know if you will stand in the centre of the fire with me and not shrink back. It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied - I want to know what sustains you from inside when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself, and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments. I am only interested in the real "YOU" - Author Unknown If you enjoyed what you read, and would like to make a new friend who works hard, & plays harder in life... Send me a note! :) cheers!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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