I'm a young man who isn't particularly social but craves companionship (and sex, I'll be honest). I work part-time as a custodian at Chelsea Hospital during the week and spend my off-hours and weekends being creative at home (writing, drawing, or making guitar music) or day-dreaming about women. I'm writing a novel. One day I hope to finish it. I'm looking for a serious relationship in the sense that while we're together the feelings are meaningful, intense and mutual. There's nothing wrong with stress-relieving sex, but I want it from a girl who feels the same way I do: we're both together to share something special and meaningful. I enjoy stimulating conversations as much as good sex. I can appreciate a smart woman, and would rather be able to talk to her as an equal than treat her like a disposable object. Be forewarned, I'm a fairly private person and spend the majority of my free time alone. When I travel, I don't go far and prefer to stay fairly close to home. I like the outdoors, seeing as I grew up in a small town, where forests and nature were close at hand, but I haven't been hiking in years. In other words, I'm looking for someone local, who isn't bothered by the fact that I'm essentially a young recluse. Privacy is guaranteed at my home and I live in a nice place. I don't have pets and I don't smoke or do drugs or drink. I'm very polite to my guests.

My Ideal Person I'm not a picky man. Physically speaking, a little padding or crooked teeth or asymmetrical breasts isn't going to make me think less of you, nor is your race or religious background. I'm seeking meaningful companionship, so the superficial things aren't quite as vital. Age doesn't concern me so long as if you're an older woman who doesn't mind being with a younger man.

However, I am not without personal tastes... If I had to make a preference, it'd be smart, slightly taller, slender girls with ample breasts, very pale skin, long legs and glasses - think "naughty librarian" and you've got the right idea. Blonds, redheads and brunettes are all perfectly acceptable. Just don't feel like this is a bar that you have to measure yourselves with, ladies; it's just a dream of mine.

It's the inside that counts. The things I'll be looking for more than anything are things like a strong sense of humor, a fun personality and an active imagination. I want to laugh around this person and enjoy being with her. Figuratively speaking, I want to take her places she's never been.

Ultimately, I'm a lonely young man looking for a similarly lonely woman who wants to spend her hours with a private, mannered young man, experiencing something intense, vivid and meaningful. If that woman is you and you want to talk, let me know.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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