Just seeing if this really works. Before you even ask, yes my name is Lopaka, it is my Hawaiian name that most my friends call me. I am new to online stuff, but here is the hard core truth. I am lonely and tired of being alone, I love my and cat, but need more. I need a women who can be beside me in and out of bed, I need someone who understands that when I am half asleep I want to be able to just reach out and put my hand on them and know they are there because they care, also to be able to walk by you and in the hall or kitchen and just lightly touch you to show I am here and care, someone who is happy that I am home.

My Ideal Person A true woman that can be slightly kinky, sexy, spontaneous, up for new things in the bedroom and out of the bedroom, but most importantly not desperate and force it. Also who can provide real proof of who you are and where you are. Worst case scenario is, there is no connection and we just stay friends.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
There are way too many to list here.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
We all do, but that is something that can be a great topic
for a discussion.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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