Hi folks, I am who I am and won't change I'm afraid. Who am I? I am Steve and some may say I am larger than life. I can be loud, raucous and great fun to be with. I hate troubles in my life and tend to try and steer clear of as many as possible, so that happiness prevails. I love socialising, having a drink, fine food, theatre, rugby, cooking and wine. I just so happen to be a Heathen Pagan, its just part of who I am and who I've always been. I'm not weird, just have a belief in a path other than the norm. I am very open-minded and adventurous and love to try new things as much as I can both in life and physical and emotional relationships. I am a very down to earth guy who is not slim, but not extremely fat either. When I'm in bed I am usually dominant, but do enjoy a switch from time to time. I am kinky, no denying it, I like BDSM, specialise in sensation and candle play and enjoy most of the great sexual experiences the Gods have endowed us with. I am not into blokes, nor ever will be. I am a girl man through and through. I can be animalistic in bed, you can tell if you have really turned me on because I start to growl and things can get rough, but never violent. If you don't mind mutual biting, scratching and ass slapping then you are OK with me. As with all my BDSM activity, I only practice SAFE, SANE and CONSENSUAL Play, if that's not your bag, then don't come looking for me. If you like what you read or are intrigued and want to know more about me....Talk to me, I don't bite (yet lol) and like to chat. As Dr Pepper says "What's the worst that can happen?".

My Ideal Person I am looking for a girl who is completely happy in her own skin. Has no cares for what others may think of her and takes no rubbish from people. I love intelligent, witty, creative and cultured women, who have a love of the finer things in life such as good food, culture and company. I like a girl who is outgoing but also has a tender emotional side that is comfortable going out to a busy pub or restaurant, going to a gig or the theatre. But, is equally as comfortable having a quiet night in with fine food and wine and chilling out. My girl needs to share my interests in kink and also be willing to experiment. An ideal match match would either be submissive or submissive positive switch. But at the end of the day, lets get to know each other and see what happens from there.