Just the average professional boy next door who takes care of himself, bathes regularly, has a gym membership, who works as a mild-mannered engineer by day but moonlights as a reincarnated Stevie Ray Vauhan at night (well Ok... If he played bass). Don't let the silver hair fool you. I have not yet succumbed to the walker and Geritol, nor the little blue pill. My spare time is spent driving with the top down and music blasting, skiing, zorching around the Patuxent River in my boat or Jet Ski, wrenching on classic cars, shooting my friends with paintballs, or jumping on the Harley for a day collecting bugs in my teeth. I'm not claiming to be a Lance Armstrong or Michael Phelps, but unlike many of my like-aged compatriots I can comfortably run 5 miles, ride a bike 50 miles (in fact I just completed my first century ride), and can still see my shoes when I look down. I am educated, irreverent, and pretty smart. Laughter is a gift and I enjoy a sharp, witty conversation. Intelligence is sexy. I enjoy watching and being watched. 3-somes, groups, public fooling around, camera-play or moving-making are huge turn-ons. I live alone on the water in southern calvert county. Yeah, I know. The other side of the moon right? We live in the modern age with roads and cars and stuff. I have yet to need a rocket to get where I want to go and neither have you. I have a boat and a great location to host. As I get to make more friends Id love to host a house party. Maybe a big football playoff party. And after the win we can all take turns splitting the uprights! I'm straight but not homophobic. Not interested in playing with a guy but I won't freak on you if swords cross in the puppy pile. I've been told by the women and couples I've met that I'm a well kept secret.

My Ideal Person On an appearance front I am HWP and physically active prefer people who are the same.

Smart, witty people are sexy. Engage me in conversation and you'll get the blood flowing southward. I'd love to find friends outside of the bedroom as well as in.

I've been a member here on and off for the last 10 years, sometimes as part of a couple and sometimes as one of those poor bastard single guys. I have lifestyle experience playing each way. Would love to meet single women and couple who would enjoy establishing friendships in and out of the bedroom. Open (welcoming actually) to something more with the right lady.

I can accept emails from standard members so don't be afraid to say hi.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Rimming, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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