***I'm a standard member now. So I won't be able to look at your profile. Send pics with your message. Thanks!*** [B][COLOR darkred]Please read my profile if you are going to write me. I know I am a guy but that doesn't mean I am just a walking hard on looking for a slice. I do have standards. Also, if you friend me and don't ever write me, or respond to messages, I will delete you. This isn't myspace and I am not looking to collect a bunch of bullshit friends. Thanks.[/COLOR][/B] I'm a 30-something, bored, professional seeking some excitement with a woman I have chemistry with. I'm a hobby musician, a great cook, I love to travel, camp, and explore. I am fun, and I do like a good party now and then. But I also like to relax and take it easy. I am open to adventures with a wide range of women. But as far as an LTR goes, I tend to discriminate a bit more, due to a lot of factors... I'm not conceited or shallow about it. But renting is a long way from buying. I just know what does and doesn't work. But it's all a bit trial and error, isn't it? Hmmm on the couples thing. That's a delicate situation indeed. The last thing I want to be is the straw that breaks the back of your struggling relationship. So it would have to start out as a hanging out as friends thing so I could take stock of that. I have been in a few very exciting couple situations. I do realize that there are very well adjusted open couples out there. Just understand that if you aren't one of those couples then I am not going to deal with you. :) I've got no drug, alcohol, or financial problems. No psycho ex-wives, no , and enough relationship drama under my belt to know what I want and what I don't want. [B][COLOR darkred][I]I marked the smoking thing to be completely honest. BUT that is a "when I am out drinking" sort of thing and not a big habitual monster. And the only "drug" I do comes directly from the ground.[/I][/COLOR][/B] Interested?

My Ideal Person My ideal person is a woman who is realistic toward the world. I have done the idealism thing and it's certainly ponies and rainbows, but that's not reality. So if you want ponies and rainbows, go to FAO Schwartz.

If you are a sensual, sexual, intelligent, woman, with good perspective and balance, then we could work something out.

If you are just looking for a good time, then there still has to be a spark. As much as I am a man, I can't just sleep with anyone. I have to have some sort of connection and attraction.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Evans Blue, Chevelle, Coheed and Cambria, Soilwork, Trapt,
Killswitch Engage, Mudvayne

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I've always wanted to be with a woman and go out one night
and have her pick another random girl to take home. Then
my woman would run the show, directing myself and the stranger.
There's the threesome and then there's the stranger
threesome... That's something I have never had. It
just seems so much more exhilarating.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Scarlett Johanson is ridiculously sexy... She's
not all built up and fake. She seems very much a real woman
to me. I think my favorite performance of hers was in Lost
In Translation. I was hooked at the opening credits. It
was a great movie anyway, but she was the sexual punctuation
to Bill Murray's melancholy lead role.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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