well where the hell did my sex life go . . . . . . life took over, took over, work took over. I love my and my wife lets get that clear - if it bothers you that I have and i'm married (semi happily), then please don't judge me, just move on. - I'm a brutally honest guy and what I say may not be for you but it happens in alot of marriages and alot of people lives . . . . in the end i've come to the conclusion that i may have sex addiction :-) or . . . I just need something more, something extra that I just don't receive now. If you're wondering, my wife and I have tried, but she admits she can't offer me more, she doesn't have the same drive as me.. I'm not going to apologise because the majority of you would agree that once every 3months is not great. you're proberly thinking 'yea, she's not into you mate', its not true. She admits she's just lost her drive. I'm a 30 year old man and my sex drives needs attention. So what am i looking for: sex. discreet sex as my wife wants no knowledge of it, just the 'happy' back in my sex life. adventure. I'm naturally curious and excited by new things. does anything go? well maybe, just ask me, hell lets just do that. honesty. I've been honest with you and i expect exactly the same back, that way we're clear on boundaries and expectations. listening. i want to listen to you, what your needs are and what you like, what excites you. fun. In the end thats what you're here for and we're both looking for. lets laught and enjoy it. sensuality. sounds odd, hey but what i mean is savouring it all and enjoying every touch, smell and sense. talk to me and lets meet and have fun!