I am married, but like many women my husband puts in long hours. We love each other and I satisfy his needs, but mine are probably greater since I have more free time. I do work, but am frequently home in the evenings alone. My husband and I have had long talks, and he says he does not mind as long as it does not change my the way I feel about him. That's not gonna happen. Having said that, I would not want to play in front of him unless he wanted me too and was involved too. Friends at work say I have a good sense of humor