35 5'4 260# 44C white female Looking for preferably white male 21-55 who loves large women. Married. Yes husband knows his idea. I'm a very casual per. Not into lots of make-up and am not high maintenance as some women are. Menage possible with the right males. Prefer men who lean toward the alpha side & know what they want & how to get it. More info available if interested. After posting this realized maybe I needed to be a bit more specific in what I'm looking for. I'm not looking for a one night stand. I'm interested in a friend with great benefits...a confidante and a stress reliever. Someone who I can be myself with and who can do the same with me. Must be sensitive to my needs and will force their own wants and needs. Must be open minded as I am open minded. Also, must be willing to listen to my ramblings either via email (which is where I'll usually do it) or in per when needed especially when nervous. Also must be willing to share thoughts, feelings, and anything else that is going on that you would like to talk about. Am looking for someone who can be discreet as well. As far as my husband he might or might not be involved depending on the right per or pers. He's 50, white male, 6' tall, 215 lbs, brown hair, blue eyes. He's also bi-curious. No he hasn't done anything and I'm not sure that he would. Since I'm open minded about this am willing to consider someone who is bisexual as long as they are willing to take their time with me and to some degree with him. However, he can be involved in a straight threesome (or more) as well. Have done that once over almost 12 years ago. Would love to repeat. I really like being the center of attention because I'm so rarely there. Really only available on weekends to get to know someone right now...later possibly more. Work interfers currently. As I said not looking for a one night stand so if that's what your interested in please don't send a message. Takes me time to warm up to a per and trust them enough before meeting. So patience is greatly appreciated. If you're still interested just send me a message and we'll go from there. Please include in your message what you are looking for as well as a little about yourself. Also, list anything that would be a must do or things that you will not do. Am mostly looking for as much information as possible. I get too many one or two sentence "I want to get to know you better emails." I look forward to hearing from you.

My Ideal Person As I said I'm looking for a friend with great benefits and not a one night stand. They must love larger women. I like the alpha male types. However, they will need to know when to bring it out and when is best to just listen. I want someone I can email about my day and the things that are going on in my life as well as talk to on the phone and see in person time permitting. I need someone who can also talk back to me about their life. Someone when needed will let me cry on their shoulder then soothe me but who also wants me under them screaming their name. I prefer men who are 5' 10 & taller and dark hair (the proverbial tall, dark, & handsome - my husband fits that description in my eyes). However, I do like blondes as well. Have never been with a bald man so am intrigued & excited about the possibilities. Am not as much into facial hair such as mustaches and beards but I guess that would depend on the guy. However, I won't rule it out on the right person. I want someone who will encourage me whether we're doing something intimate together or in something I'm doing outside of the relationship. I do like men who are vocal in bed. I like dirty talk though I'm actually quieter or should I say moaning and gasping too much to talk as much myself. But is encouraging to hear and is a major turn on for me.

I know there are lots of other things but it varies person to person. Ohhh...he must also be more endowed than my husband who is 5" average diameter, circumsized.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Disturbed, Nickelback, Three Days Grace, Garth Brooks,
TransSiberian Orchestra, Andrew Lloyd Webber

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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