We are a married couple looking to try new things. We are interested in finding the "right one/ones" to make a lasting friendship with benefits. We have been married for 14 years and have both thought a lot about trying a 3-some but have never found what we have been looking for in our new partner. With his job, friendships are hard to keep active, but we would like to find some real people for real connections. We would love to find someone that we can have dinner and drinks with or just rent a few movies and stay in for the night and see where things go from there. Safety and discreteness are a MUST as we do have a family to consider. We are not a Ken and Barbie couple therefore are not looking for such, but we do expect total honesty. Single women-- we want someone that is secure in who she is. No clingy women or anyone that is needy or completely insecure. Couples-- all encounters will be on a friendship basis first then things may move on from there only if all are comfortable with the situations. We wont do anything we are uncomfortable with and don't want you to either. Anyone that is pushy or overbearing may move on to the next profile now. We are a friendly and happy couple but want to have our thoughts upfront so as not to waste anyones time. If you are interested in getting to know us hit us up and we will get back to you asap. All others, we wish you the best of luck in your searching. UPDATE: We have downgraded to standard membership, but are still interested in meeting someone special. contact us if you are that someone!

My Ideal Person Please read our profile carefully, we are NOT looking for any single men. There have been many contact us but, sorry guys, we are not interested.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Would love to walk in on hubby and another woman together
and join in for the most awesome sex imaginable

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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