I really don't want to be a 'swinger" or a player. I am seeking only one woman, but she must be a sexually open-minded one. Someone who realizes that great sex involves at least as much playing with the mind as playing with the body. Someone who has no objection to occasional role play, toys, or whatever else might enhance the experience. Someone who wants to share secrets and fantasies, no matter how outlandish, or taboo. I am early 50's, tall, very trim, laid back and respectful. Not a social butterfly, but do okay in most social situations. Definitely more of a homebody than a party animal. I like to cuddle, kiss, enjoy heavy make-out sessions, long walks and deep conversations. Due to an atrocious number of introductory messages that went totally unresponded to, I have let my gold membership expire. It wasn't worth the cost to end up just being ignored. So if you're interested, you will have to write to me. I will be courteous enough to respond, whether I'm interested or not. I can also be reached thru okcupid. Look for sowilo61.

My Ideal Person You must at least be open-minded and accepting! While I certainly want someone open to the possibility of immediate intimacy, right now companionship is more important than sex. I'm usually more attracted to larger women, but age, race and size are not determining factors. However, the attraction must be mutual. If you are good with your hands, that is a definite plus, as great sex involves much more than just putting "tab A" into "slot B".

I MIGHT consider the possibility of meeting with another couple, as long as activity is limited to the men just being with the woman, as I have no bisexual tendencies. However, I understand the excitement of watching your partner with someone else, and believe me I would enjoy watching the two of you as much as he would enjoy watching the two of us, as well as both men paying attention to her. As with any other situation, compatibility between all would be the main factor.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Valerie Bertinelli, had a crush on her since I was 14! Jane Krakowski in her Ally McBeal days.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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